Being a dad. Babywearing. Bonding.
Your fatherhood journey starts here
Being a dad means taking responsibility, offering closeness and being present in every moment. With a baby carrier, everyday life becomes quality time – close, connected and full of meaning.
In our section for fathers, you'll find everything you need to carry your baby safely and comfortably – while staying true to your own style. Whether sporty, urban or practical: we show you carriers that fit your lifestyle.
Why babywearing is great for dads:
- You give your baby a sense of security and strengthen your bond.
- Your hands are free – for coffee, shopping or the older sibling.
- You’re part of it all – from day one.
BABYWEARING IS A MINDSET
Could you land a plane in an emergency? Wrapping a stretchy sling is much easier. Practice twice – and you've got it down. More and more dads are discovering how good it feels to carry their baby so close and build a deep bond from the very beginning. And the best part? Mom gets a well-deserved break.
Dad carries
Why babywearing is also for men
All dads carry their babies – in their arms, on their shoulders, throughout the day. But with a baby carrier, your hands stay free. For coffee, shopping, or the older sibling. And best of all? It strengthens the bond between you and your child – while making everyday life a lot easier.
5 reasons why carrying your baby is a game-changer for dads:
- Closeness builds trust: Babies need physical contact to feel safe. When you carry your baby, they hear your heartbeat, feel your warmth, and smell your scent – just like they did in the womb. It calms them and deepens your bond.
- You get to know your baby better: Many dads say their baby relaxes or falls asleep faster in the carrier. You’ll learn to read their cues and develop your own dad instinct.
- Hands free, heart full: With your baby in the carrier, your hands are free – whether for a walk, errands, or just grabbing a coffee. You’re mobile, flexible, and still right there with your child.
- Equality from day one: Babywearing is active fatherhood. It shows: I’m here. I care. That strengthens your connection not just to your baby, but to your partner too – because you share the care.
- Good for your body, too: Babywearing supports your posture, strengthens your core and back muscles, and even boosts oxytocin – the “cuddle hormone” that promotes bonding and wellbeing.
Whether you choose a wrap or a structured carrier – find what works for you. What matters is: you’re part of it. Because being a dad means being right in the middle of it all.
Mental Load
When responsibility feels invisible
“But I helped!” – a sentence many dads have thought or said. But family life isn’t about helping – it’s about sharing the load. And it starts in your head.
Mental load means all the invisible work that never ends: Who remembers the next check-up? Who knows when the diapers run low? Who plans the birthday party, buys the present for the daycare friend, or keeps track of all the appointments? Most of this happens quietly – often handled by moms, without recognition. Not on purpose, just because that’s how it’s always been.
But it doesn’t have to stay that way. Dads can – and should – be part of this mental work. Not as assistants, but as equal partners. It starts with honest conversations and a willingness to think ahead together.
How shared responsibility can look:
- Don’t just ask “What can I do?” – think along proactively.
- Talk regularly about tasks – with lists, humor, or clear plans.
- Avoid comparing who does more – it’s not a competition.
- Take initiative – not just with physical tasks, but mental ones too.
Care work isn’t just “mom’s job” – it’s your shared everyday life. Equality starts long before diapers and bedtime stories. It starts in your mindset – and in the willingness to carry responsibility without expecting applause.
"Dad, you're doing great!"
On self-doubt, stereotypes and real fatherhood
Becoming a father is one thing – feeling confident in that role is a journey of its own.
Many dads stumble through early family life. They watch their partner seem to know everything instinctively – while they struggle to use the carrier or sweat at the changing table. The feeling of "not doing it right" is common, especially with little recognition from others.
The truth is: You don’t need perfection – you need presence.
Your baby doesn’t care about your technique – they care about your voice, your touch, your smell. You’re allowed to try, to mess up, and to grow. That’s what fatherhood is about.
Three things to remember:
- You’re not second best. Your child needs you in your own way – not as a copy of mom, but as dad. Real, imperfect, and full of heart.
- Mistakes are normal. You’ll pack the wrong shirt, misfit the diaper or mess up bedtime. That doesn’t make you less – it makes you human.
- Your effort matters. Whether you’re babywearing, changing diapers, playing or supporting breastfeeding – you're shaping your child’s world.
Tell yourself more often: I’m doing great. And if you don’t feel it – talk to other dads, share with your partner, ask for support. Your role as a father is just as important – even if it’s not always as visible.
Affirmations: You’re holding your baby? You’re doing great. You’re listening, even without a solution? You’re doing great. You’re learning every day? You’re doing really great.
What you give your child isn’t a copy of mom – it’s something of your own. And that’s exactly what makes your family complete.
